[Hac-announce] For real God is pretend and for pretend God is real--New York Times Guest Essay

[Manny Sholem Ratafia]

I found this opinion piece interesting and thought-provoking, and think 
it is worth sharing.--Manny

https://www.nytimes.com/2022/05/02/opinion/god-evil-problem.html?algo=clicks_norm_diversified&block=1&campaign_id=142&emc=edit_fory_20220502&fellback=true&imp_id=684102894&instance_id=60234&nl=for-you&nlid=46841805&rank=3&regi_id=46841805&req_id=686797417&segment_id=91059&surface=for-you-email-wym&user_id=4aa61a7a85f469ed918ee787f817ccb4&variant=0_combo_lda_channelsize5_unique_edimp_fye_step50_diversified

_Opinion<https://www.nytimes.com/section/opinion>_

Guest Essay


  How to Pray to a God You Don’t Believe In

May 2, 2022, 5:00 a.m. ET

By Scott Hershovitz

Mr. Hershovitz is a philosophy professor who has written a new book 
about children and philosophy.


The world is awful at the moment. Millions have died of Covid-19. 
Authoritarianism is on the rise, abroad and at home. And now there’s 
war, with all the death, destruction and dislocation that entails.

In dark times, many people seek refuge in religion. They hold fast to 
their faith.

But darkness also drives many people away from God. My older son, Rex, 
is one of them. He’s studying for his bar mitzvah, but he doesn’t 
believe in God. He told me that one day, when we were taking a walk.

“Why not?” I asked.

“If God was real, he wouldn’t let all those people die.” He was talking 
about the pandemic, but he could have been talking about the killing of 
civilians in the Kyiv suburb of Bucha or any number of other atrocities 
he’s been exposed to in his short life.

“Why do you say that?”

“God is supposed to care about us,” Rex said. “That doesn’t seem like 
something you’d let happen if you cared — and could stop it.”

This is the “problem of evil.” It’s an old philosophical question. Rex 
had never heard of it, but it’s not uncommon for kids to rediscover 
ancient arguments on their own. They’re thinking the world through. And 
if you think about God (who’s supposed to be all-powerful and endlessly 
empathetic), the existence of evil poses a serious puzzle: Why does God 
let us suffer?

People have proposed many answers, but most are poorly reasoned. For 
instance, some say that good requires evil — that it can’t exist without 
it. It’s not clear why that would be true. But the bigger problem is 
that if you take that view, you call into question God’s omnipotence. It 
turns out there’s something God can’t do: create good without evil.

But also: If good requires evil, maybe just a little bit would do. Is 
absolutely every evil in the world essential? Why can’t we have a world 
that’s just like this one — except without that twinge of pain I felt 
last Tuesday? What kind of God can’t soothe my sciatica? My physical 
therapist, Tony, makes my back feel better, and he doesn’t even claim to 
be a deity.

He is a hero, though (at least to me). And some say that’s why God 
allows evil in the world. He doesn’t care about pleasure and pain. He 
cares about what pleasure and pain make possible — compassion, 
redemption and heroic acts, like Tony mending my back. To get those 
goods, though, God has to give us free will. And once we have it, some 
of us abuse it.

This is, historically, the most influential answer to Rex’s question. 
But I don’t buy it. Why can’t God create only those people who would use 
their free will well? Why can’t he wave Paul Farmer 
<https://www.nytimes.com/2022/02/21/obituaries/paul-farmer-dead.html> 
through and keep Vladimir Putin out? He knows in advance how each of 
them will act — if he’s really omniscient.

Some believers feel the force of these arguments, but maintain their 
faith nonetheless. Marilyn McCord Adams, a philosopher and Episcopal 
priest, doubted that we could explain the existence of evil. But that 
didn’t bother her. A 2-year-old child, she explained, might not 
understand why his mother would permit him to have painful surgery. 
Nevertheless, he could be convinced of his mother’s love by her 
“intimate care and presence” through the painful experience.

For those who feel the presence of God or have faith that they will feel 
it later, I think Ms. Adams’s attitude makes some sense. But if I’m 
honest, it sounds too optimistic to me.

I’m with Rex. I think the problem of evil poses a serious barrier to 
religious belief.

Still, Rex continues to study for his bar mitzvah. Why?

Before Rex came along, I struggled to account for my own religious 
practice. I don’t believe in God, so why do I fast on Yom Kippur and 
observe Passover? It’s just what we Jews do, I might have said; it keeps 
me connected to a community that I value.

I’d still say that, I suppose. But when Rex was 4, he reframed my view 
of religion. One night, I was cooking dinner, and he asked, “Is God real?”

“What do you think?” I asked.

“I think that for real God is pretend and for pretend God is real,” Rex 
announced.

I was stunned. That’s a big thought for a 4-year-old. It’s a big thought 
for a 40-year-old. I asked Rex to explain what he meant.

“God isn’t real,” he said. “But when we pretend, he is.”

Philosophers have a name for this sort of view. They call it 
“fictionalism.” Suppose I say, “Dumbledore teaches at Hogwarts.” If that 
was a claim about this world, it would be false. Hogwarts doesn’t exist 
here, and neither does Dumbledore, so he can hardly teach there. But 
they do exist in a different world — the fictional world that Harry 
Potter lives in. The sentence “Dumbledore teaches at Hogwarts” is true 
/in that fiction/.

Some philosophers are fictionalists about morality; they think rights 
aren’t real except in stories that we tell. Others are fictionalists 
about numbers; they think that math is made up. I think both views are 
mistaken; I believe in morality and math.

But I think Rex was right — and onto something important: For real, God 
is pretend, and for pretend, God is real. I am a fictionalist about God.

Our family recently switched synagogues. At the old one, the service was 
mostly in Hebrew, and I don’t speak much Hebrew. I know how to say all 
the prayers; I just don’t know what most of them mean. So at synagogue, 
I would sing along and let the words wash over me. I liked that.

At the new synagogue, we sing a lot of the same songs and say a lot of 
the same prayers. But we say many more of them in English. And I find 
that almost intolerable. It turns out, I like my religion inscrutable.

I just don’t believe the stories that we tell. And hearing them in 
English forces me to confront that, over and over again.

Still, I pretend. And I don’t plan to stop. Because pretending makes the 
world a better place. I learned that from my kids too — Rex and his 
younger brother, Hank.

Pretending blurs the boundaries between this world and the ones we 
imagine. It breathes life into stories, letting them shape the world we 
live in. Just think of the delight kids take in Santa Claus, even those 
who know, deep down, that he’s not real. Or the way they lose themselves 
in play. Pretending makes the world more magical and meaningful. And 
it’s not just for kids.

When it feels like the world is falling apart, I seek refuge in 
religious rituals — but not because I believe my prayers will be 
answered. The prayers we say in synagogue remind me that evil has always 
been with us but that people persevere, survive and even thrive. I take 
my kids so that they feel connected to that tradition, so that they know 
the world has been falling apart from the start — and that there’s 
beauty in trying to put it back together.

Soon, Rex will stand before our congregation and pray to a God he can’t 
quite believe in. It will be a magical morning, and for that moment, at 
least, we’ll transcend the troubles of the world.

Scott Hershovitz (@shershovitz <https://twitter.com/shershovitz>) is a 
professor of law and a professor of philosophy at the University of 
Michigan. He is the author of the forthcoming book “Nasty, Brutish, and 
Short: Adventures in Philosophy With My Kids,” from which this essay is 
adapted.

-- 
"Fight for the things that you care about, but do it in a way that will lead others to join you."
― Ruth Bader Ginsburg

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